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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I startd seening my boyfrnd early january this year what happend ystday we took a step by trying 2 have sex but i didnt happend a we rushing things or what!we both love each other and the guy spoils me and sametimes i turn 2 feel unhappy!plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, BeSimplyTrue  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 It's only rushing things if 1) you don't feel ready, if you feel more scared, worried, or grossed out to have sex than you feel excited, attracted, and nervous; 2) if you are having sex because you believe you have to, whether because he's putting pressure on you, your friends are putting pressure on you, or you're putting pressure on you; 3) if you aren't prepared with the proper birth control and STD protection.
That said, I don't really understand the last bit of your message: "sametimes i turn 2 feel unhappy" what does that mean? Is there another question in there besides "are we rushing sex?" Not to be rude, I just wanna answer everything if you had more questions in there.
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