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writes:So me and this guy knew each other back in the day and I'm 99% sure we liked each other but never admitted it to each other (we're both stubborn and play hard to get). Anyways we are both in our early 20s now and it's funny sometimes when we are talking he will say "I don't like you" or "I don't know why I'm talking to you, I don't like you" but then he will continue on with the conversation or continue talking to me period and chilling with me! I'm thinking he says this (I say it back too lol) as his way of saying he DOES like me but he can't actually come out and say it. When I say it to him I'm saying it because I do like him but can't come out and just say it to him. Think he's doing it for the same reason?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2013): His actions for sure say that he likes me, at least in my opinion.
And I can't just come out and tell him because I'm scared he will think I'm just playing but I told him I had a serious question and he answered that seriously so maybe I just have to make sure he knows I'm not playing around
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 September 2013):
 well i think you need to stop playing games with him and come clean and talk to him like an adult and say
Hey I've been playing a stupid childish game saying stuff but meaning the exact opposite... and I think we would be good together... what do you think?"
why can't you just tell him?
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (9 September 2013):
 It's not what he says, it's what he does or how he acts around you. Does he listen to you intently? Does he remember things that you talk about? Has he asked you out on a date? Does he flirt with you? Does he spend a lot of time with you? If a guy is attracted to you, he'll want to spend as much time with you as possible. He'll do nice things for you. He'll go out of his way to help you with stuff. If he does these things and more, then yes, he likes you. If he doesn't then you're just a pal to him that he can kid around with.
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