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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so my exboyfriend and i still have feelings for eachother. we broke up cuz of distance n the fact that our lives might be moving in different directions n shit. but so when we travel n visit eachother (its been about 6 months) we still have a really great physical relationship. it sounds "wrong" to my "culture" specifically to be physically involved without any real commitment. but we still have feelings n enjoy time with eachother just as friends too. but we are inhibiting ourselves from "getting over it" n such right? what should we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Only you can really answer that question.
Do you feel that if you met a wonderful, gorgeous guy tomorrow that you could date him and actually be with him or would you still want to be with the ex?
Do you really want to get over your relationship with your ex?
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (5 February 2008):
 So why be broke up? If you both really like each other and really like the time together then just have a long distance thing. People do it all the time, I do. If you both still want to see each other but cant be faithful to each other then have that conversation and date other people too. As long as you guys lay the ground rules ahead of time you should be able to handle it. But, if you really want to just move on, the do so. YOU be the one to end it for good if thats what you want.
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