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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've got a pretty good friend from my final years of high school whom I have gotten on well with since we met. We live near each other and hang out quite often. However, lately, she hasn't messaged me back as often as she used to and often refuses to take me home sometimes (as I don't drive yet). Also we don't have many exciting conversations, although besides this we do have friendly banter which makes us enjoy each other's company and are supportive in times of need! But is this a good or bad thing? Are we drifting apart inside even though we meet up often? Please help, thank you! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
Ask her if there's something you did to upset her. Give her a chance to talk about it, if there's anything. If there is, then you have a chance to make it better.
If she says there isn't anything, then it may just be time for your relationship to change. It happens. Friendships sometimes go in cycles like that.
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female
reader, lgonzal2 +, writes (13 March 2009):
Think about if some how, you did something to make her angry? Do you thank her for driving you or give her gas money?
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