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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy in one of my classes. Every time look up he is staring at me. When he sees me he looks away really fast or he pretends to look up at the clock or something. I was talking to his friend and he was going to come over to talk to his friend. When he saw me he turned around and waited off to the side until I left. Then he went to talk to his friend. His other friends that I don't even know always stare at me or they start to whisper and point when i walk down the hallway. When I walk past this guy in the hallway he puts his head down and looks at the floor. Or he will mess with his hair. The only time he has ever spoken to me he asked me a question and looked away as I answered. He never talks to me other wise. Even if he needs something he will aske everyone in class except for me even if he knows that I have it. He's had other opportunities to talk to me as well. He listens when I talk. If I'm talking about something to his friend in class then he will start talking to his friend about something similar.I don't know him that well, but I don't think he has ever had a girlfriend and he is kind of shy. Do these seem like signs that he likes me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): I'm no expert but it sounds to me that he has a crush on you but is too shy to talk to you because he's afraid of being rejected. Listening to you when you talk then talking about something similar means that he's trying to relate to you. If he's too shy to ask you something why don't you try asking him a question about himself. You may be surprised, he may just answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): YES! I'm guessing that you're asking because you kind of like him as well, and you want to know how to get him to talk to you... so try this:If he's shy, direct eye contact will make him feel flustered, especially initially. Try walking past him and saying hi. Or even just smiling.Since he's only in one class, try being just a tad late to that class one day and whisper hi to him as you walk past.If you do make eye contact with him, smile.If you don't want to put yourself out there that much until you're sure, try to read his body language:When you catch his gaze and he glances away, are his toes pointed towards each other?When he plays with his hair or looks down in the hallway, does he also touch his nose or ears?The next time he listens to you talk, smile at him directly (just a casual, relaxed smile, catch his eye briefly), does he have his chest pointing towards you? Does his face become a little flushed?Trust me, he likes you, he just needs a little prodding :)
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