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writes:Is it true that if two people are meant to be together, they will be together...like fate? Or is it all just rubbish?Is there anyway to tell if you're meant to be with someone?
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reader, bonym +, writes (15 May 2006):
 I believe FIRMLY that if 2 people are meant to be together and God intnds it that way, NOTHING stops them from being together. I also believe that we can "mess" with destiny and fate if we become selfish and greedy and adopt this I want it and I want it now attitude and we may end up with someone who is not suitable for us. My dear, when you meet that special person, only you and the person will know, I cant tell you that, you will know. I cannot predict the future either and I cannot sit here and tell you you will meet Mr Right some time soon, but I think that when you meet the special "ONE" you will know. xXx
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (15 May 2006):
 This is a really big question because its something that alot of people are looking for. I think the term is more 'soul-mates', I think there are a collection of people out there who orbit close to you, some closer than others. The future is a myriad of possibilities. Its not true that its entirely impossible to predict. Some courses of action make certain things inevitable (although inevitability is something you largely cant see at the time but read back).
I agree that soulmates have a mutual sense of connection and you just know. And I agree that the connection doesnt always have to be romantic although these are the people we tend to look to romantically. Soul mates are our ideal partners but ideals are always based on truth and are not merely creations of our mind. Hope that helps. Take care.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Nobody can predict the future. Why worry, take each day as it comes. I am sorry but I don't believe in the concept of a one and only 'soul-mate'. Otherwise people wouldn't go onto to have multiple marriages or relationships. You can have a fabulous *connection* with somebody else, but a one and only....? Nah, cannot do that! Enjoy the beautiful connection you have and don't put too much pressure on yoursleves to have this perfect soul-mate relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): No one has a crystal ball that allows you to know if you're meant to be with someone. You either are with that person now, or you're not. People who try to manufacture liaisons will use phrases like "we are meant to be togehter". Is this what you are trying to do?When soulmates meet, they immediately have a mutual sense of connection. I have had the fortune of encountering a few soulmates in my life, both female and male. Some might call them close friends, but I call them soulmates. I have a deep relationship with each of these people. With my female soulmates there is always the potential for a romantic relationship, but that consideration is secondary. We are intimate in a non-sexual way and the bond we share will endure for life. We have earned each other's trust and will do anything for the other. My soulmates are the rock upon which my life is built.Don't let the need for or the pressure of romantic intimacy get in the way of finding your soulmates. If you put romance first, you will be deceived many times. Knowing you are with a soulmate can take months of talking, "hanging out", and sharing experiences. As you encounter soulmates, a romantic relationship with one of them will simply be icing on the cake, but not the cake itself.Good luck in your search.
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reader, Mon +, writes (15 May 2006):
In old scriptures, it is mentioned that even if you have passed someone in the street, you have relation with him or her to that extent. Some relations are meant to be momentary while at other extreme, some relations are life-long. Example, mother, father, brother, sister and husband/wife, etc. The soulmate is an ultra-ancient story and does not hold at present. However, man and woman are said to be soulmates if they have lived together for past 3 lives. This can be ascertained by observing your partner: what you lack he/she possess and compliments, and vice versa. Normally, you would live well, think and prosper thru such relations and can be categorised as soulmates. Our own lust or pleasure seeking fundas drift us away from our true life-partner and then we seek to come back to the source, our soulmate. There should be no guilt feeling in such a case, no ego nothing.
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