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writes:I have been in a relationship with a scorpio guy for 5 months. I'm aquarian with scorpio rising. I'm in love with him and he told me he loves me also and asked me to marry him. Can it work out between us. Sometimes I don't understand him at all he gets in moods but I just want to love him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Then Just love him, You must make your own future and stop reading that bullshit. It can be like voodoo! what if a weekly forecast says something negative? Do you sit and wait for it, probably drawing negativity to you by this thinking? you can not just believe the positive, so there fore it is utterly pointless to live your life around astrology, leave the stars for astronomers and ancients who used them for the correct reasons. And try and understand each others individual characters and LEARN for yourself if your relationship can work. You will learn nothing in life if you follow astrology forecasts that predetermine your decisions ,choices. Don't be afraid to take risks and make mistakes it's the adventure of life aquarian freind... who should know better! Fear should not be a quality within anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): Agreed with the below advice. You simply don't base your happiness and future on birth signs. You can believe it if you want but it makes sense to be more realistic and pragmatic about something as serious as a lifetime committment to another. If you don't understand his moodiness, then don't make plans to marry the guy, until you do undertsand why he does this. Be careful and use your head and think about this. Good luck, dear
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reader, Shipwreckd +, writes (4 August 2008):
 First, I'll suggest picking up a book called "How to Spot a Bastard by His Star Sign."
In my years I've used Astrology and it does help, but you can't rely on it 100%. It's nice to know how to generalize how a person will react to certain things, or why they act like they do, but it's merely a guide. You can't read a person by stars alone. Their past and their experiences are what make them unique.
Also, you can't really help who you fall in love with. I know many couples who are of completely incompatible star signs, but it works well for them.
To answer you, sure it can work out! Just don't set yourself up for failure by thinking "oh, we have incompatible signs. It'll never work."
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): I don't think it matters what sign they have. I used to follow it, but then I met a great guy. Our signs aren't compatible, but we get along really well.
Ignore the signs... Just get on with life, if you think hes "the one" then don't let star signs change things between you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): are you serious? you cant be really saying that you are doubting your relationship because of you signs? i dont really understand wat your asking here. if you love him, then marry him! just because you dont understand him 100% of the time doesnt mean you not supposed to be together! you need to realise that your in an adult relationship now and you cant rely on star signs to determine whether or not your supposed to be with the one you love.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Please tell me you are not 41-50! My husband and I do not have "compatible (according to most of the literature, at least the crap I've read anyway" zodiac signs. We celebrated our 33rd wedding anniversary this past April. Sometimes I don't understand him either but I sure do love him. Don't listen to nonsense.
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