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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have had a surgery for a tumor recently.When I asked one of my friends last week for a get together lets call her A,she replied that she was too busy though she was coming down to my side of the town today.Today I got a call from one of my other friends at 4:05 lets call her B,saying that they are all meeting at 4:30 to see a friend C who has come to town from another state.I understand that C lives in another state.So I don't mind that she changed her plans but A didn't inform anything to me at all.If she found my phone unreachable there are lots of other ways to contact me like facebook,gtalk etc.she didn't.B called me 25 min before the gettogether.I am not able to move fast because of the complicated surgery.I wouldn't have made it.I am not one for superficial relationships.If they don't like me I would rather they told me in my face and moved away instead of resorting to hidden agenda.I don't know how to handle the situation.I am from a small town and pretty innocent when it comes to people.I would appreciate some ways of handling this situation
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2012): Its me the Op again.They were there for me during my worst times in life.They will always be my angels whether they like me anymore or not.But yeah this hurts.Thanks anon for the hug and well wishes.I am not someone who makes friends easily.So no more new friends.Will have to get my health up.Will concentrate on that.Thanks again for the advice and your valuable time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2012):
How can you consider them your angels if the diss you and then inform you 25 minutes before the reunion knowing you've had complicated surgery and therefore wouldn't make it... Doesn't sound very angelic to me..
I would rather have my own company than people who are rude inconsiderate and sorry rather selfish...
Let them go, don't text them phone them email whatever if they call you say I'm sorry to busy can we do that later., take up some new hobbies.. Ask the hospital if there is a support group near you to meet other people who are recovering from the same disease you had.. Make new friends..
Take care sweetie, sending a hug, hope the surgery went well..
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2012): Lets say these two people are two people I considered my angels.How to move on.I am very poor at letting go of anything in my life.Thanks.
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