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writes:Me and my ex-boyfriend have been split for about a year and a bit but i still have real bad feelings for him and i have had 2 serious relaionships since him which lasted 2 months. Now i'm in a relationship and we are nearly in our 10th month but i sit next to my ex in my maths class and we connect because we are on our own but when we are with our mates (as we are in the same group at college) we dont get on to good..like comments and he said to my best mate he starts to like me again when we talk about our past..What do i do? Are the feelings there because he was my first real relationship or is it just a thing..?If it is what do i do..dump my boyfriend or stay single..?please helpRhiannonxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): When you love someone properly for the first ever time, I think it's always the hardest to ever get over. Me and my boyfriend have been together about 15 months now, and I know that I just couldnt get over him, and he was my first love too. I think when you break up from your first love, nothing feels right any more. A kiss was yours and his kiss. Not yours and someone elses. Your love belonged to him, and you just couldnt imagine loving someone else. So therefore its always gonna be much harder getting over them, I think.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (2 March 2008):
 I think it is most likely because it was your first relationship; there is always a special place in our heart for a first love, the first person to stir those feelings in us.
Having said that it seems your current relationship is quite serious, having lasted ten months; there must be a reason that it has lasted that long. If you were asking this question about the ones that only lasted a couple of months then I probably would have said to stay single but I think the relationship you are in is a little different.
I think it offers you the opportunity to maybe move on from your ex and experience new feelings with your bf which may turn out to be just as powerful and long-lasting. Ultimately of course it is up to you, good luck :)
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