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anonymous
writes: My ex has a male roommate to save on expenses. They go everywhere together, cook for one another, buy each other birthday gifts, and they're planning a vacation to the Virgin Islands--together....Am I being presumptuous to think they may be gay or is the writing all over the wall?
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (30 September 2005):
The bigger question is, why would you care?
It sounds to me like your ex is making the most of the fact that he's single and unencumbered (to which I say, good for him). In fact this doesn't sound gay at all to me; it sounds more like two guys doing the freewheeling things they always wanted to do.
Maybe you're reading too much into this and caring a bit too much. Leave them to it and get out and do something interesting for YOU.
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reader, pops +, writes (30 September 2005):
Yes. They may just be best friends. Or they may be gay. If he is your ex, what business is it of yours? Ignor him. Get on with YOUR life.
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