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Are backstabbers better than being alone?

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Question - (9 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, this seems unimpornant, I know. But I'm really having problems with it. I feel like all of my friends are backstabbers. They don't really care about me at all, and I feel like they don't want to be around me at all.

I don't know how to handle the fear that I'll be graduating in a few months, and when I do, I won't be able to cherish the friendships I've made in the past four years.

What do I do? If I leave these friends, I won't have anyone left, and will finish up the year all by myself.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010):

i lik this question and this is not unimportant it is important....

i feel being alone is gr8.... cause no one can come in your way!!!

BE HAPPY TO BE ALONE!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

Instead of thinking of it as a bad thing and that you won't have anyone left, think of all of the new people you'll meet at college or work. You'll have a fresh start and will meet better friends who won't backstab or hurt you. Sadly friends don't always last forever, but the good news is that you'll meet new ones who you'll be happier with.

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A female reader, unknown12 United States +, writes (9 February 2010):

this is kinda similar to my situation with friends...i dont really know youre friends but its better to bve alone than to be with a bad company what you have to do is try to be friends with the right people that will help u suceed

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

Never have friends who are backstabbers. Trust me, being alone is better than being betrayed all the time. Try to make new friends elsewhere, such as clubs, or even with other students.

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