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writes:Hey, I'd love some advice from guys and girls about my new bf. We've had sex twice, and he is pretty amazing...his focus is on pleasuring me, and although we do have penetrative intercourse, his stamina is amazing, and he has never actually orgasmed because we both get so tired out before either of us orgasms. He gets an erection every time we kiss, and says he finds me very attractive.I'm not complaining at all, but wonder if anyone has had a similar experience? Other bfs I have been with have had much less stamina and have always carried on until they orgasm. He says he loves what we do, but I really want to make him orgasms...does anyone have any tips on how to do this next time we sleep together? Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): I'm going through the same problem at the moment... People are telling me I need to not think about it so much and just enjoy.
It kind of gets to me though. Even though we go for ages, my girlfriend thought it might be her fault and that is not the case at all.
I love sex and it feels great but I think it's just an early stage in the relationship - Learning about each others bodies because every one is different.
...But, I want to tell you something that I haven't told my girlfriend yet; maybe you should try telling him to relax and you take over. Get on top and control the guy, I think that would be hot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): More foreplay? Oral before hand? Maybe you could ride him so he is not as tired as quickly, or alter positions so you don't get as tired as quickly.
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