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writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend for a while now and am seriously considering having sex with him in the not too distant future. I'm a virgin and he's not, one of my main concerns is the pain I might experience as well as the fact that I don't think I'd be very good. I've spoken to my boyfriend about this and he's said he wouldn't force anything or be rough, though I am still wondering if there is anyway of basically loosening up other than using lube. As for the not being very good, he said 'Sex is never a perfectly straight forward thing' and has been very sympathetic about it, but obviously I don't want to be a huge disappointment for him because I care deeply about him and would like to be able to express that. On a final note- we have discussed condom use and I am also on the pill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice. Satin- he has brought me to orgasm before through fingering and oral so I'll assume he knows his way around lol! I think I could probably do with getting to know his body a bit better so I feel more confident but I will bear in mind what you have both said :)
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (3 February 2009):
no.
you just have to relax and take it slow.
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