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writes: I know a lot about sex and im been sexually active just havent had intercourse i came close a few times.But im just worried about my body being exposed and my friends think im the bravest and the wildest but its like when it come to focusing on just my body i get kinda nervous.Any tips or things to make me more comfortable? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Another possible solution is to turn the lights out.There have been many occasions where my partner was uncomfortable with her body during sex.And doing it in the dark seamed to help them.All though I personally didn`t like the idea I always respected my partners wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): Most people have some insecurities about their body, but when you have sex for the first time with a new partner although it's normal to be a little nervous,if you are with the right person in a comfortable place those insecurities shouldn't be an issue.
You may have heard the phrase "in the heat of the moment"?
Basically, this is the point of no return when you are about to have sex, and you want that person SO much, that the passion and adrenaline rush will dispel any shyness about your body. It can also be the moment when you forget about contraception, so be careful but have fun!
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