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*arah18
writes:My long term boyfriend and I have recently in the last 5 or so months, have started having sex.I love him, and don't in anyway regret this decision, and our relationship isnt purely physical and sex isnt everything.However, when we do have those special moments and get caught up in the heat of the moment.. we have a problem of him ejaculating too early!Sex on average is lasting less than 5 minutes, and Im not too concerned about it, but I would like to know if there is any way or any advice to help him last longer?We are open about this and hes willing to talk about it, and we slow down when he can feel himself about to cum, but I would just like to hear any suggestions!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): i dont know if it works for your boyfriend but smoking while having sex eventually makes me last longer.I dont know why but...it helps me in thinking other things rather than concentrating on the pleasure zone...
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reader, Meks  +, writes (10 March 2009):
When he feels he is about to cum, he should try and squeeze the mouth of his penis and he should also try and masturbate before having sex
hope u'll find this useful
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 There is a theory that men ejaculate sooner when they're worried about lasting longer, and that men worry about lasting longer when they are with someone they love and care about a lot because they want to make it special - there is also a theory that as you both get used to ine another and anxieties ebb away, sex will bcome naturally easier to last longer as there will be fewer expectations.
However, if you've been open about this and it isnt too much of a concern for you, he may still feel thst he is doing you an injustice by cuming too soon so he may still feel anxious even if you've said it ok - this site may be of some use:
http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/a/premature_ejac.htm
I hope this helps, good luck!
xxx
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