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writes:Hello, I have a friend coming over tomorrow afternoon, and I know that recently things have changed between us. We're beginning to become very attracted to each other when in the past we have just been friends. Can you all give me some tips on how to keep things under control? I try but my will power is not always strong enough! Thank you for your time. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Hi,
then be careful, don't be friendly as he may get the impression you like him and when a boy and girl like each other sometimes it can lead to a relationship. You better watch out for these, they are dangerous.
Sorry to be rude, but seriously , just relax and chill out will ya, if you like each other nature will take over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, there is no boyfriend or girlfriend, I am just aprehensive.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (4 March 2008):
"What more of the story would be helpful to give?"
How about anything? We are only asking ask to solve a problem but there appears to be none, so you need to spell it out mate. you seem to think its a problem letting things progress with someone you are attracted too - so I guess most people think why does she have a problem with that, maybe she has a boyfriend or he has a girlfriend - otherwise you are asking for advice and it's very hard to give if there doesnt appear to be any problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat more of the story would be helpful to give?
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (4 March 2008):
Why not let nature take its course. Or is there something you are not telling us?
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (4 March 2008):
Why not let nature take its course. Or is there something you are not telling us?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 are you afraid of wat this may do to your friendship? why don't you talk to him? if the two of you really do like eachother, and you think this could work, then why not give it a shot? this is not going to go away until the 2 of you talk it out and tell eachother how you feel. i think you should tell him and maybe talk about taking things further - if you think that these feelings go deeper than sexual desire. if you want more help just email me good luck xxx
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