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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Just need a few tips about having sex on top!!Im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years but everytime I build up the courage to go "on top" i freak out!! Dont have alot of confidence and basically dont really know what to do, am worried that I wont satisfy him..any tips?!
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reader, BigHeartNLuvr  +, writes (29 April 2009):
Dear Anonymous:
U need to remember that you are beautiful and wanted as a lover. You are a worthy person and are sexy. There is no reason to be nervous and feel inadequate. I too, can be shy, but I've learned that being shy gets in the way of my happiness in life and I have missed out in many things. Your boyfriend has chosen you to be with, so you need to choose him to be with. What I mean, is that u need to be yourself with him and feel safe in knowing he cares deeply for u and won't judge u. Don't be afraid to try new things. You will be surprised how much fun you can have. The best thing u can do is communicate with whomever your with. Tell him what you like, with noises, words, and by showing him. R u completely pleasured when he is on top? Many women only like it on top and some don't. All u have to remember is that u r rubbing his penis back in forth inside of you. It's not up and down, just forward and backward. It's basically a rocking motion at the pelvis, you don't phyically move your pelvis away from him. I love being on top and I think it feels the best, unfortunately, men love this too, and a few of them can have a harder time not coming too soon, before their woman has been pleasured.
Give it a try and don't be scared to try different things and to communicate with your luvr.
Good luck.
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