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writes:So my girlfriend and I live in two different cities and she constantly wants phone sex..I have never had phone sex before so I usually stay quiet..I need some advice on what to say to her..I want to give her the satisfaction she wants...
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reader, xnickx +, writes (10 November 2009):
 Personnally, whats always worked for me, is one of us ask the other what their fantasies are, and then we talk them out, being very descriptive and sensual.
the easiest thing i could tell you about how to avoid being awkward is be 100% honest with her. Tell her what you like, what you'd like her to do to you, be creative and just enjoy it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): Try telling her what you're doing, but make sure to be detailed about how it feels, etc. so it's more sensual. Ask her what she's doing, ask her to do things that will turn you on and describe it to you. Once you start getting into it, it's a lot easier. You could also try making up "stories" and act them out over the phone to each other. Good luck!
Have you ever considered a webcam and something like Skype?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): Don't feel like you have to be some porn star and say things you don't feel comfortable with. The best thing to do is just to start out slow and don't expect to master it the first time it takes practice just like all things. It's going to depend on what your girlfriend wants to hear but most girls like details. Start out asking her what she's wearing, and tell her what you're wearing, then tell her to take off articles of clothes and tell her which things you're taking off. Talk slow and in a low relaxed tone. Then just start telling her what you'd do to her from the very beginning don't just jump into "I'd touch your boobs or stick my hand between your legs" build up to that. Tell her things about touching the rest of her body, caressing her face, running your lips down her neck and across her chest. Tell her how good her body feels to you. Tell her what you're doing to yourself, where are you touching yourself, are you lightly rubbing your body or are you firmly stroking yourself. Give her as many details as you can and make noise, you don't have to sound like a porn star I love hearing my boyfriend breath heavy in the phone I don't need exaggerated moans and sighs, just your natural noises. Ask her where she wants you to touch her, how she wants you to touch her, how she wants to touch you. Just explore and have fun with it, there really is no wrong way to do it. If you aren't sure what to say or you freeze up just say something like "How about you tell me a fantasy you wish we could fulfill right now" that will give you an idea of what she's looking for and will also give you something to go off of. Tell her how much you want her body, that you're hard and turned on by the things she says. Just remember girls like details and have fun. Good luck!
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