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writes:Hey there, I'm a little confused right now about myself. I'm going into ninth grade and I've only been asked out once!! I've been called hot and stuff numerous times, but no one has really ever asked me out. Is there something wrong with me? I don't drink or do drugs, I'm not obnoxious, and I don't act dumb for no reason. What's wrong with me that repels guys? I mean, I have good hygeine,but I'm really confused. If you could help that would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you soooo much you guys!!!!!! That really means a lot to me!! I'll definitely keep being myself and i'll see how it turns out. thanks again!! :)
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reader, Nikki Nikkles  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Guys are probably intimidated by you. In fact, there's probably a guy you know who really likes you, but isn't sure what to do because you don't seem "easy" like some other girls. Trust me: I just got my first boyfriend a couple of weeks ago. I'm 16. It'll happen: and when it does, you'll be the happiest girl in the world. It's definitely worth the wait.
Good luck!
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (22 July 2010):
Im glad you don't drink or do drugs!! and don't ever feel you have too because there is pure pressure out there! look at it this way the right guy hasn't found you yet! he will.
you are young enjoy yourself have fun! and stop focusing on so much that you think there is something wrong w/ you! focus on hanging out having fun w/ your friends and like i said he will find you ok.
Good Luck!
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reader, LuvDrunk +, writes (22 July 2010):
Maybe guys are a little intimidated by you. Maybe they are scared of rejection or worried that they arnt good enough ect...dont ever ask whats wrong with you! I'm the same age as you and I understand your insecurety but its not your fault. It'll happen when it happens...just be patient! If you like a guy, send him signals, let him know that you'd say yes to being asked out ect...over all we are young, be flirty and have fun!
Peace Love and Happiness 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): Since you've been called hot, I'm guessing you're completely intimidating to those poor boys! If there's one you like, smile at him as encouragement, I bet he'll need it to get the courage up to ask you out! Or you can always ask someone out yourself.
No one asked me out till I was 16 and in the 8 years since then, I've completely lost track of the number of guys who've asked me out. So don't worry, you'll be fine!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 July 2010):
 AWWW... Hey theres nothing wrong with you.. wait check and make sure you dont have a tail... if no tail proceed to check for fur or horns... ok if none of that your perfectly normal probably...
You havnt gotten asked out because 1 your either really hot and intimidate guys... 2 guys think your taken allready...
another thing girls move a little faster at your age mature a bit quicker but when you get to HS they start to catch up a bit things will change you will turning boys away pretty soon.
Another thing you dont have to wait... untill they ask you if you see a boy you like go for it its 2010 not 1910.
so dont worry it will give you grey hairs and that would be weird
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 I didn't get asked out until I was 16. Don't panic sweetie it'll happen when it's meant to.
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