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writes: I fancy the pants off of this guy that I met online (last January) but he lives in Scotland and I am stuck here. I came out and told him that I liked him. Later on he admitted that he liked me too but wishes that I wasn't here. I've decided to study abroad in Scotland, at his uni and he thinks it's awesome. He also said that he would go with me on a trip around Europe during the summer of 09. He sends me mixed signals and leaves me puzzled though. When I first said that I liked him, he told me that it would never work do to the fact of me being really ambitious and etc. Then, in October, he finally admitted that he liked me. I'm just kind of confused by these ^ contrasting statements. Any opinions or advice on how to proceed with this enigma of a man? Thanks, xoxo Brooke
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reader, katatonik +, writes (3 December 2008):
 I suspect his initial reticence was due to the fact that he didn't want to start an online relationship with someone he might never ever see. Now that you are going to Europe and the two of you can meet in person, a relationship with you probably seems more realistic to him. Make sure you first meet this guy in a public place if you do go over there. Good luck =]
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reader, Teacake +, writes (3 December 2008):
 This must be a Scottish trait. The guy I'm in love with is from Scotland and you never really know what's going on. Charmers, they LOVE women and need more than one. They are great at not letting you know what the heck is going on.
IF you want to ruin the rest of your life and be unable to ever fall in love with anyone every again, then go for the Scottish. You will never be the same. You might never find anyone after them either. Good in bed. Funny. Evasive. Unless they are head over heels in love, you won't know much. If they are into you, you will not have to guess what is going on. Scottish men are romantics. If you are The One you are the luckiest girl in the world. If you are just the one who will do until he finds Her, your life will be utter hell!
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