A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello people I need some serious advice about my relationship with my girlfriend now we've been together for 2 years and 3 months and what really bothers me is her friends her aunt and her cousin they all pretty much want me out of her life and are willing to do anything at all to get rid of meRecently she had broke a promise that she'll never drink unless I'm with her but she broke that promise and said to me no more promises ever because I whine about what she did and how or what she has to do to make up for it She says I'm annoying because I nag at her and she says she feels like I'm her dad. I don't like telling her what to do I just want her to care about what she tells me and what she does for me. She does everything for me that's I need like help with college and trying to find a job but she never gives me what I want which is just being able to spend time together without getting her annoyed or mad about something. Lately her cousin has been asking her to hangout with her and she as well as I know that she will do whatever it takes to get rid of me. It gets extremely hard because there is something about my girlfriend that makes everyone want her to themselves I've seen it with all her friends family and myself but want her sometimes to actually be theirs my girlfriend tells me all her friends have one time or another been sexually aroused by her and it's worse with guys everywhere I go someone is checking her out and yet she says she's ugly and fat. Back to the point her cousin talks to a guy which me and my girlfriend hate because during one time we had broken up and this guy got her drunk and given the state that she was broken up with me an the guy knew that and used it to his advantage and slept with her she regretted it but she's also the type to get revenge so I messed up by calling her a bitch because she thought I was checking out a girl when I was not and it ended up in a fight and she told me I would regret it then cheated on me but now she regrets it but still wants to go party and drink and I feel we cousin is just using that to see if my girlfriend can either cheat on me because she's drunk or try to make me mad at her I know it's alot but please I need help Any advice on how to fix our relationship? Plus I want to get what I want from her because I'm the one usually showing affecting and not her I want to show me affection more often any advice on that as well?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 If you want this relationship you need to trust her it is as simple as that. If she wants to go out and have a drink with her cousin well then let her. She still has a life outside of the relationship. Yes maybe her cousin doesn't like you but if your girlfriend was serious about you well then she would not cheat on you. If she does well then you are better off without her. You are both young at the moment and it is normal to be spending time with friends and family away from a relationship. However if you feel like you just never have any free time with her and she does not show you that she cares then talk to her about this and tell her how you are feeling. Explain to her how it makes you feel. But you cannot nag at her for going out for a drink with her cousin. S
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