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writes:ok here it goes...i've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and my guy is great but over the last couple of months i find myself drifting away, not that i am falling out of love with him i'm kinda just bored out of my friggin mind!! not only that but were different in so many ways...i honestly dont know if i want to be with him anymore and i have no idea what to do...i'm not so much worried about myself but im worried about him i just cant hurt him im not good at that and i would feel sooo bad. any advice on breaking up? as smoothly as possible? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): You should talk to him. Discuss the reasons you are so bored. Maybe you can figure something out, maybe not. But talking is the best thing you can do. Breaking up is never easy, it always hurts. Couples are always different from each other. They always want different things. Dating isn't easy, nobody ever said it was. You have to talk to each other and work your way through the differences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): there is no smooth way to break up. you just have to let him know what's up, and why you feel it's time to split. and just hope that time will heal whatever damage is done.
i wish there was magic way to make breakups go smoothly, but there isnt.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Only advice I can give is to do it as soon as possible, to linger once you have made up your mind is cruel and un-necessary, this will hurt him more in the long run.
Just tell him, brutal as it sounds it is the only way, you have grown apart, it happens, it is time for you to move on to new challenges.
Breaking up will always hurt and there is no easy painless way.
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