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Any advice for a non-skinny chick?

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Question - (25 February 2006) 8 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

right we have to do this bleep test at school and and i am realy fat so i get 2 ans 3 and the popular girls take the piss out of me how do i get them to stop

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006):

Remember your a woman not an insect! They'll not stop till they're exhausted either and even thin, they will look all hot and sweaty. Flaunt what you've got! Attractivness comes from self confidence!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2006):

i know how you feel. at school, my friend only used to get 3 or 4 but she held her head high and ignored them. it was the popular girls that looked stupid then, wasn't it?! also, being bad at p.e isn't the end of the world, it's not like you need to be really fit to get a decent job when you're older. as long as you remember that although the popular girls are better than you at p.e, you are better than them as a person, because you don't try to knock other people to make yourself feel better. besides, you've got loads of talents that they don't, not everyone's perfect, including them.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2006):

We had a bleep test last Thursday. Now, I know that what these other girls are saying is wrong, but always try your hardest at these tests; at the end of the day all they are are futile and pointless exercises designed by a sadistic, old man, but really, do try to get the most out of them. Use them as an excuse to get yourself into shape! You'll feel better about yourself if you do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006):

oh god, yeah we used to have to do the Bleep test. Me and my group of friends were never that good at it, so we just decided that we should all go out together, give up at the same time. It actually made it a lot more fun too! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2006):

Regardless of what these moronic girls are saying... Why not try and get in good shape anyway? Exercise is the best way, go for a walk with your mom for 40 minutes a day around your neighbourhood each evening.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2006):

hey chick,dont listen to what they say,people like that are not worth the air they breath! i totally know how you feel i went through it too,i promise if you hold your head up high they will get bored and if it helps when you get older and you look better than they do you will love it!I do!lol!

KEEP SMILING ;o) XX

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A female reader, RetroLove +, writes (25 February 2006):

I would say, if your open enough with your parents, ask them to help you go on a diet. Make a list of foods you want to cut out, and stick to that.After one week, reward yourself with a very little something sweet.

Even as hard as it is, cut back on portions. I have such a huge problem with this one, because i loove to eat. But take it slow, and when you feel satisfied, walk away. When you eat at a resturant, take half home.

Try to excercise more, even just a little bit than before, its better than nothing. Walk to school (if you can), if you have a dog-take it on a long walk, Run in your backyard. You can even do excercises at home, like crunches and a mini-kickboxing excercise.

When you start to lose weight, your gonna get sooo many compliments. And if you do, go shopping! it makes you feel so much better when you get a whole nice new smaller wardrobe.

Oh, and just so you know, most guys dont want a stick, they like curves. Trust me.

Good luck! I wish you the best! 3

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A female reader, wookiee's girlfriend +, writes (25 February 2006):

wookiee's girlfriend agony auntjust ignore them. i know it isn't easy but honestly it helps. when we did the bleep test i didn't get as far as the thinner girls but i didn't care. your body is probably changing a lot now and you may well get a lot thinner when you get older. personally i think that curvey girls are much more atteractive - but that is from a curvy girl's view point. size really doesn't matter - honest!

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