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Another player?

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Question - (29 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *brea//babbby. writes:

I liked this guy a couple years older than me.. and he was sweet and stuff when we started talking and we ended up having sex when we hung out.. well my cousin knows of him and heard he was a player.

She told me this last night. Well it wasnt like we had sex right away and then he left.. he was cuddly and stuff before and after. He said so randomly that he has never had a real conversation with a girl like he has with me.. with laughing and real come backs, so this makes me think he isn't playing me.. One time we fell layed in each others arms for around three hours until I finally told him that I had to go home because it was way past my curfew. We talk all the time and last night we were supposed to hang out but he got off work at like 12 so I didn't want to. He was drinking a lot and kept telling me how he was so horny and wanted to *uck me so hard and went on and on about it. He asked me this morning what all he was saying because he can't remember anything he was talking about.. I forwarded him some stuff and he said. Wow... and you are talking to me? I was just like.. why wouldn't I he was just saying like well iwouldnt talk to someone after all of that.. why are you i said i dont know. so do you think that he was saying that trying to get me not to talk to him? im so confused. we decided that we were going to hang out today and then he was going to drop me off at my friends on his way home.. well he texted me and was like my parents are leaving so ill get in the shower and come over. so then two hours later i texted him.. have they left yet? and he said yeah but i just threw up [hang over] and he said he was going to come in a little bit.. Well he texted a couple minutes later and was like I can hardly go anywhere without throwing up. I'm sorry. I really wish I could..

So do you think he is lying.. because hes moved on after another play?

help me please.

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A female reader, *brea//babbby. United States +, writes (30 November 2008):

*brea//babbby. is verified as being by the original poster of the question

*brea//babbby. agony auntwe hung out last night & he didnt even try anything..

he ended up coming and had to leave because he felt sick but dropped me off at my friends house in a different town..

he acted pretty normal.. a little quiet. he didnt even try to kiss me.. later i was hanging out with a couple guys & he got mad.. so i dont know.

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A female reader, lil'shade United States +, writes (29 November 2008):

I have been a player back in my day so I kind of know what he's doing. Let me hit you up on game gurl he liked you at first. Then you did it with him a few times so maybe now he's sick of hiting it. Maybe if you try to ignore him then he'll come back. Next time make him wait a while & see what happens. Good Luck Gurl.

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