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Anal virgin needs advice

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Question - (4 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Until this morning, I was an anal virgin. At the age of 33. Now my question is : what do I need to know if I'm going to allow this to happen again? Practical considerations? safety concerns? I enjoyed it - but what can I do to make it more enjoyable for me) Is it messy ? (I didn't really notice this morning) ( I'm sorry to be so naive)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010):

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We didn't use lube the first time. Should I next time to reduce the risk of tearing? Or. If it didn't hurt the first time I should be fine without?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010):

Lubricant helps. Clean your bowels with a pump bottle of water; shake around and then flush in the toilet. Don’t switch between anus and vagina without cleaning the penis or changing condoms because faecal matter contamination is a factor. And enjoy.

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