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writes: I am 23 years old. I have been longing for anal sex with my long term partner of 5 years. Only because I am curious about the sensation and also wanting to please him. But, I am scared also that it will be very painful. Does anybody have any suggestions it will be very helpful and greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): Satindesire has it perfect. There is one thing you might consider...you might want to prepare yourself with an enima beforehand. This way things are clean, and less mess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): Baby oil will take care of the going in part. Try having her lay on her side; start slow she should be okay after acouple of seconds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): the first time my bf and i decided to do it, we just went for it... lots of foreplay, lube and just taking it at my pace, which is the most important thing... don't worry, sometimes you'll be ready for it and sometimes you wont, just trust your body and gently penetrate... gentle at first really is the main thing...
the fact that you really want to do it will make it easier...
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