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Anal sex and more

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Question - (23 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2012)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend always wanted to try anal...but we are very scared to.

one of his friend's friend he heard, tore her ass and had to be admitted to the hosp.!! 2 of my friens have done it and what they advised me is ..that it is extremely painful..and bleeds a lot while and for days after doing it..and warned me that once men get the taste of it they cannot do without it.

i feel i am extra tight for sure..i can't imagine anything getting in..

even in vaginal intercourse it pains slightly in the start . especially if we are doing it after a long time.

on the other hand i have heard that its unnatural and totally unhygienic

apart from anal , any suggestions on adding some spice to it?its got boring and routine . i want some realistic ideas...i've read blindfolding ...tying up the guys hand etc..but don't really know how to go about it..any other games or something. i want to give some sorta new exp. for my guy.how do men view dry humping ?is it a turn off?

i feel shy to suggest things.but i know that he's surely bored of it..but not expressing it out.it freaks me out that if this goes on , he wouldn't want to make out anymore..!

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A female reader, curious1987 Australia +, writes (25 May 2012):

curious1987 agony auntOther ways to spice up sex life.. lap dance, striptease dance, wear sexy lingerie and be only in that when he arrives home. Have dinner with no Indies or bra on under revealing dress, sex in the loungeroom, on wAshing machine, honest the possibilities are endless depending what u both want. Try different positions like missionary, girl on top, doggie, reverse cowgirl, 69, really anything like these will turn u both on. Good luck and let us know how u got on. Xx

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