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writes:My girlfriend and I have had sex once before but she doesn't want to risk getting pregnant since we know condoms don't always work. Do to circumstance we are unable to obtain any other kind of birth control. So she asked me if I'd be willing to have anal sex instead until we can get some kind of birth control. I have gotten up to three fingers in her ass before and she seems to rather enjoy it, but I'm worried that actual anal sex will be uncomfortable for her. We also can't get access to any kind of sex specific lubricant. So does anyone have any suggestions on how to make our first time as pain free and pleasureful for both of us as possible?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Your onto a winner here. Its great to have a girl who is willing to take it in the ass. I dont think you will have any problems, just use some spit if you dont have lube. Just get it in there and go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): You two did not pay attention to question at all. He can't get the pill and he's probably too embarrassed to go out and by lube. And anon, he said he fingered her and it didn't hurt her. He just wants advice on how to make it feel as good for her as possible without it hurting either. I don't have much advice since I've never had anal sex before, but like you have fingered her ass. My advice is just pay attention to her. If she seems likes she's in pain slow down or even stop. But if she's loving it then keep going. Good luck!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 Just go see a doctor in your own time. That's bull @^%$ if you can't get the right protective gear and get on with it... don't fool yourself. lube is easy to get just see a doctor. or ask her to go on the pill, your an adult bro!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): I would suggest other forms of sex; non-penetrative sex. use your hands and mouths on each other, there is no need for anal penetration if it painful for her. If you're worried about getting pregnant you use a condom whilst she's on the pill for more effective birth control. Even with birth control you may find you're sex life is more exciting without straightforward penetration (or anal penetration), foreplay is fun, pleasurable, exploratory and has less risk.
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