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writes:Let me start at the beginning....I posted on here a while back about my hair....well I finally got my wig and it looks amazing! so today I went and emailed my BF and well...I think I'll just post the emails here....make it easier.... wore my wig out with J. Yesterday and my friend Sue looks at me and goes...."did you do something to your hair?" hahaha!She thinks I should wear it to California...and I was lke...oh yeah I have to worry about getting through the airport...finding Ash....finding and getting to the hotel....AND not moving to fast or bending over too fast so my hair doesn't fall off....?thats smart!!! hhaha!HIMTo be honest I'm finding all this wig stuff a bit disturbing and way too weirdMEwell to each there own I guess....but it's no different than a person dyeing there hair or curling it or whatever....no different than fake fingernails or push up bras or anything else like that is it? HIMJust wear a hat or cap like normal people when thy have hair thy hate. **** youve known 4 months it was gonna be in march when we saw eachother. Who wears a wig? Cancer patients, hookers, clowns and people hiding from the law, old people......MEfirst off i bought the wig because I liked it and I wanted to try something totally different. and I look awesome in it....I don't think I owe you an explanation for that....and if you have a problem than thats what it is YOUR problem.....Considering that everyone I saw yesterday told me it looked like I was just born with hair like that I just enjoy it and knowing it looks nice on me..... Cancer patients old people and hookers.....well now....aren't you just full of steriotypes......very nice.....I like to experiement...and if that means you want to catagorize me and think i'm weird than I feel sorry for youclowns actors, people on the run from the law.....interesting......what about people who just wanted to have some fun with it and change there looks a little? obviously it doesn't look that different since not a single person knew it was a wig until I took it off!!!!!why does it bother you so much? it's my head for goodness sake......HIMYou dont have a #*# and #^ clue do yu?.yor going 2 be meeting a middle eastern looking man in an airport whose stying in la a week with little luggage and a nz passport.wearing a wig? u dont think that will draw attention? this nt a game sara thy askd me about 30 personal ?s at airport last time.bring yor wig dont wear it on the plane or in the airport please.it may mean i will be sent bk 2 japan if things look 2 suspectMEyou're paranoid......I never said I was going to wear it at all before you jumped all over me about it.....I said SUE said I should wear it and I made a joke about it....you need to relax.....I don't want to go at all if I feel like I'm going to be walking on egg shells or something.....you're making an issue out of nothing....maybe you need to go back and re-read the emails.....never once did i say I was going to wear it?HIMThats fine.....I can just find someone else to help me enjoy my holiday in LAMEoh please....how could you get so upset when all I did was say what Sue said to me? I thought it was funny since theres no way I would deal with the wig all the way there anyways....if you re-read the original email it was just a joke......damn....besides that....you could have explained it to me before you came at me with all this crap about hookers and clowns.....couldn't you have just said you didn't think it was a good idea? why jump all over me about it whenA- I've NEVER TRAVELLED ANYWHERE did you ever even think for a second that the fact that you're arab didn't even enter into the thought process? I don't walk around thinking about what I should do or shouldn't do at the airport for goodness sake! I didn't even remember that....but your ethnicity isn't something i put much thought into....As I said....couldn't you have explained it nicely before jumping all over me? I mean....you want me to understand about you and airport security and such.....couldn't you have explained it to me in a way that wasn't so rude?I've never even been IN an airport....how would I know anything about airport security???Thats all before he started trying to sweet-talk me again because....well....I swear he can't admit if he was wrong.....but he doesn't think I have the right to be upset by this....whats everyone else think? am I wrong to be upset here? I'm willing to listen to everyone elses ideas so that when/if I do talk to him I can see things clearer....right now he makes me too mad to think straight.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 He handled the situation badly. He could have said , "Hun ! You looked so gorgeous !" That would have got 100 marks from you .
He should have kept his own personal opinions to himself.
He needs to go for a crash course in how to be a hopeless romantic.
On the other hand , what he said about the airport thing maybe true and it could cause some problems.
Finally, you have a right to be upset because you are a woman.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (2 March 2008):
 I think he honestly did have an issue with the situation, not you. Yes he could have handled it differently. I think you should give it a rest, both of you.
I think he likes you for what you are and maybe the wig does make him uneasy as in his mind he equates wig wearing with circus people, etc. That's just his opinion. I didn't see the earlier post so not sure what's up with your hair. Could it be he likes the natural you?
Anyway, I think it's an argument (couples have them) that needs to be cleared now.
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