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Am I wrong to be so mad about the problems my guy has with his manipulative argumentative ex?

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Question - (13 August 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Netherlands age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Please help me im going insane!!! my boyfriend has a really disagreeable ex babymama and she is so rude. She doesn't want my boyfriend to be w/ me or else he can't see his son, so sometimes he need to say to her so she let him see his son that im not around.

i hate her to bits.

i dont understand how a person can be like that. my boyfriend and I are more than year together and she still has an issue with it. it feels like my feelings doesen't count like everything for her as long as she is happy then he can see his son cause he dont want to annoy her.

He says to me that he needs to say that I will not be there, or else she will start again and then keep my 3 year old son from seeing his father, for months.

how can this ''mother'' be like that. She also had a boyfriend but i know she wanna get back with my boyfriend. im so mad at this

why cant she be a good mom and just contact him about their son or else dont call him or on the BBM. be a good mum as long as he is taking care of his son that's all there matters right? but not for her she is a calls him all the time to check who he with or where he at.

she constantly wants money from my boy friend.. sometimes i worries if he is going to leave me to be with her again

should i be worried about it?? im so angry and I get mixed feelings.

i dont know what to do.

sometimes i wanna leave bcause i cant take this aggros anymore but i wanan be with him.

we almost never fight if it isn't about her, the fight is always why is she contacting you so much what does she want all his time??

but beside her we have a pretty good realtionship, i can laugh w/ him he is sweet to me. He is also an very caring to his son.

it's just hard for me to accept everything cause everything its a drama why couldn't it be easy. hmmm what should i do? and am i wrong for being so mad?

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