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female
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30-35,
*oon_princess
writes:About 1 and half months ago my relationship of only 6 months ended with my bf. he was a great guy, he used to love me a lot. So much that after i broke up with him he was devastated, then later he started hating me a lot because he thinks im a player. I feel realy bad for him but he maybe stil loves me. I broke up because i fell out of love. i think i never loved him, had an infatuation maybe. I realy didnt want to leave him but i didnt realy love him. i wanted to love him. it was so great, and sweet with him but i have a guy best friend, on whom i had a huge crush on.My best friend was always my best friend but my bf used to think i shared more stuff with my best friend than him so he didnt like me hanging out with my best friend. I was totaly into my bf that time. But this mentality of his sort of turnd me off. my bf startd not to trust me and i felt more bad. Then slowly i startd falling out with him. I had a problem being my bf's best friend, just couldnt but that hurt him.Anyways, after all this, after 1 month I started talkng to this guy on the internet, lets call him max. He is a great guy. i sort of have a crush on him but i cant fully believe him cause he lives on the other side of d world and i don't really love him yet but we like each other. Whenever i think of max, my old memories of my ex just picks in my head. Then again i feel guilt and so then i stop thinking about max but its making me crazy. I've to give up on something. Max or living alone. sometimes i feel like im using max for my loneliness. Dont know anything. plz help what shall i do now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): You're only 16 or 17, so your options are not Max or living alone. What do you get out of your friendship with Max, besides conversations on the Internet. What do you really know about him? Do you know that he's really who he says he is? Internet crushes can be very dangerous things.
It sounds like you are lonely and are taking solace in talking to Max. Although that's not entirely unhealthy, it would greatly benefit your social life if you hung out with real-life friends. You can spend time with your best friend, make new friends and partake in activities that you enjoy instead, if you are really concerned that you are taking out your loneliness on Max.
As for your boyfriend who was overly jealous of your friendship with your best friend, it sounds like you did the right thing by breaking up with him. You weren't happy int he relationship, and he'd never be, either, if he was always jealous.
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