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Am I too formal around my friends?

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Question - (7 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hello.

Need some opinions. Recently went out with friends and we did a character summary of each other. I was told that I'm reliable, confident, mature, sweetheart, and "highly formal" in my approach to people, the way I talk, and the image that I portray when I'm around people, causing them to be careful of the way they talk to me, and with the words that they use.

Is this bad? I'm 23, I was told that I never "let my wild side loose".

What do I do? I'm wondering if it's a compliment or an insult? Am I too formal and mature for my age if people are careful around me?

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntI really do wish people would not do these character tests, if you want to do them then do them alone.

Do you feel that the test was a good reflection of your character, I have done loads of these over the years and not one has been completly accurate and I have noticed that I can influence the outcome the more I do them (thats cheating I know)

Lets assume you think the test was an accurate reflection of how you percieve yourself to be, your mates seem to think it is, so bearing this in mind I can tell you that I would rather be with someone who is reliable, mature and a sweetheart to boot in fact if I was younger I would be asking you out for a date.

Being yourself is the main thing, wild is good for somepeople although I was wild once and it just got me into a heap of trouble, you will have a wild side we all do but sometimes it just takes awhile and the right circumstances to come out.

People let there hair down in different ways and you will do the same.

Dont let people around you influence who you are, dont try and conform and remember that up until now they seemend fine with hanging out with you, nothing has changed just because of a stupid test.

Be yourself, be happy and when you feel like it be wild!!

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