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*ammi222
writes:I've been engaged to this guy for 6 years we share everything together he never leaves my side and works really hard for us to have everything but we have a problem and I guess its me but idont know how to let go..when I first met him he lied to me and said I was the only woman he was seeing a few months together (not officially) I found out about someone else.he stopped seeing her immediately and made it official with me and has been faithful ever since. However he claims this other relationship was something like a one night stand that never went away. In the beginning he and I didn't really go out to restaurants movies partying etc. Although he did want me to be his date for new years eve and we went dancing and had a great time in which I found out he lied to her to say he was working and couldn't see her. I guess what bothers me is the unknown about their relationship I just feel like I really don't know what they did. Did he treat her better? I know he called her sweet names like angel and princess because I found old texts on an old phone of his. He didnt call me any of that until a year into our relationship and it bothers me to know if they went out partied dinner etc. And he didn't do that with me until we were official. I know this sounds juvenile or pointless but it bothers me why is that? And should it??? Someone please slap me if I need it!!
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reader, Sammi222 +, writes (8 October 2011):
Sammi222 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering. Hearing it from someone else makes me feel a little better. I just have to find a way to stop thinking about it....
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (8 October 2011):
There are nasty lies and there are white lies, and sounds like you are worrying about something you shouldn't. He could have been more careful to erase what might upset you, but if you feel happy in all other ways then this is trivial. I certainly did't tell my wife quite the full truth about who and what I was doing the day before I met her. She told me though, and I wish she hadn't!
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