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*iket389
writes:Am i the Rebound guy? Ive been seeing this girl for about 2 months now.. she was dating her ex for approx 3 years.. when i first started hanging out with her they were together and from what she said very much on the rocks... they lived together.. i liked her but wasn't trying to get involved... however after hanging out feelings developed and things happend.. which resulted in their breakup and her moving out.. Things were great we spent alot of time together and get along great it was also very physical.. however the last few weeks have left me wondering... shes changed how she acts.. we havn't had sex in over two weeks she doesn't show as much affection as she did and were spending less time together... i have to ask her to do things.. and worst of all shes having contact with her ex whom she said she wanted nothing to do with and wanted to leave her alone.. i expressed my concern and she told me she just doesn't want it to move quite so fast and that she needs a little "her" time.. well twice this week once she dropped stuff off to him and yesterday he went to her place to see the dog they had together.. it just feels wrong to me and i feel like i may be the rebound even when shes assured me thats not the case... i need advice on what to do.. im trying to take things easy and not make a big deal of anything but im having a hard time ignoring my gut instinct
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 February 2010):
Yes, you're the rebound guy. She's still got something for her ex if she's speaking to him again and is dropping stuff off and seeing the dog they had together. Your gut instinct is telling you this is wrong. It is wrong. Get rid of her now.
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