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writes:i have fingered my self before. i once by mistake inserted something thing down there it hurt but i had no blood. i've never had real sexual intercourse with the exception of dry sex with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend might have inserted his penis a little once and i did not bleed . would i still be a virgin? would i bleed if i have sex? and how long would i bleed?
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 You won't necessarily bleed if you have sex. If you want to remain a virgin, don't let your boyfriend put his penis in there at all! Not to mention the fact that he could get you pregnant. They say there are sperm in the drop of lubricant that comes out of the penis before ejaculation, so even if he doesn't have an orgasm, you could still get pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): Thanks for your responces... but I still wonder if I'm a virgin. In my culture, they have that whole wait till your married law and I will be getting married soon. They check to see if you had bled, that's why I asked if I am still a virgin and will I bleed. I never used a tampon, never had real intercourse. I don't know whether my boyfriend inserted his penis in the right place. I used something thin agaisnt the parts down there but not sure where I put it. I did not bleed either times. Would I bleed when I do have my first time considering I didn't bleed at all with my little situations I listed? Also is the hymen inside or outside? I don't think I ever felt something inside, only like on the outside surface. Once again thanks for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): First of all if you use tampons for your period, your hymen 'the cherry' has already been broken. My first time I didn't even bleed! If you do it will be like spotting and not for very long just until the blood clotted . Second inserting a penis into a vagina still counts as sex in my book even if it was just a little bit to see what it felt like. But! Above all else! Make sure you are ready to go through with it completly! This is a life changing experience and you always remember your first! Make sure its someone you want to remember in 10 years. I wish I didn't have sex when I did! I was 14 and didn't even know what I was doing! I am now 22 and happily married but I wish I could count my sex partners on one hand. Follow your heart, not your hormones. It will always lead you to the right place! Good luck!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 January 2009):
 You may bleed "a little" for an hour or so until the small bit of damage begins to naturally heal. Maybe it will bleed a fair bit at first, but it will subside as the blood clots. Possibly the result will not be much more than menstruation. You will not be the first doing this (understated) so do not fret. It is almost never dangerous as this is nature's intent when you are ready to have your vagina sexually penetrated.
It is probably a good idea to abstain from intercourse for at least a couple of days after your hymen has first been broken. The process will likely be a bit painful at first, largely depending upon the man's experience and whether he is patient, gentle and knows how. It can be accomplished with relative ease and minimal discomfort in many cases. Just make certain your boyfriend knows what the heck he is doing and that he is the right one.
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