A
female
age
41-50,
*inhem
writes:I really like a guy in my class.One day, he sent me a text message saying that " BAby.. I miss you." And when i asked him about that, he said he sent me a wrong message; he sent it to his gf. And he told me he didn't know what he did text to me. It sounds really weird because even if he sent me a wrong msg, how come he didn't know what the message said ( he can check his mail box rite?)He told me he has a girlfriend already and said I should find someone better than him. I can't get him out of my head. Nevertheless, I don't wanna forget him, keep hoping one day he'll like me back. I want to win him by ignoring him and flirt with another guys to make him jealous. But my problem is that I tutor him almost everyday since he's not schooly( he asks me tutor him too) And when I tutor him, i cannot avoid of caring him. Nevertheless, I cannot stop tutoring him because Im sure he'll fail the class without me. I know if i keep being " available" to him like this, he's not gonna interested in me. Please help me. I don't want him think that im " too available" for him, but i want him to get a good grade too.
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reader, Asked Angel  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 First
You are not responsible for this guy getting good grades and if he doesn't care nor should you.
I have a feeling he's not intersested.
Second
Playing games is not the way to make things happen with anyone.
I really think that if he wanted to be with you he would.
You should move on find someone availble and who want's to be with you to.
I know you really like this guy but he has a girlfriend don't let him use you for grades and an ego boost which he may well be doing.
I'm sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.
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