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writes:first of all, i love my wife very much. however, one day she was joking about another man having sex with her. instead of getting angy or opset, was felt my heart pounding. I was excited by the idea. since that time, I thought about this alot and have talked to her about the subject. first she said that she was disapointed in me for not being jealous about her. but i have tried to convince her me wanting to heve sex with another man doest not mean i don't love her. another time she admited that she likes the idea. the problem is that i feel that she is afraid of doing this and letting me know in case i go mad and do something she does not like, such as devorce. now here is the thing, i would realy realy love to watch my wife enjoy the body of another man. i'd love to see her have sex with another man. even her talking about turns me on. i would woreship her if she did it.so please please let me know. am i sick for wanting her to have sex with others? if not how can i convince her to open up with me and have other sexual parnters?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Now you can know why God wants all of us to treat sex as sin. the more you run after that more painful the world would become. when we reach to as much individual and liberal in sex, humans would become like dogs and bitches. no one knows whose kid is whom, who is fucking whom, who is getting fucked by whom? and who cares for whom?so choice is up to us? how much importance we want to give to that 15 minutes act. life has so many other aspects to deal with. ironically, i found strange that women find his his husband to be angry when she opens up to other men else she may divorce him. a good learning. which mean that husband need to be possessive about his wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): Keep it as a fantasyMy ex husband felt the same hence 'ex' husband.He introduced me to the internet and got kicks out of me cybering men and then he wanted me to perform on the webcam! I felt like he didn't respect me in the end and ironically one of the 'cybermen' swept me off my feet as he introduced romance to the situation. (cyberman did not know my husband was getting his kicks as we had made out I was separated) tangled web and all that - it all went tits up as my husband found out but he was not annoyed that I had committed adultery he was annoyed that he was not there to watch it????? I divorced my ex. It was a long long long time ago all water under the bridge...but that is how it all began - my husband wanting to watch me having sex with another...be careful what you wish for it may come true! Ten years later when my ex collects out kids - he still pines for the marriage and says he still loves me but that to me - was not love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): Well I've heard of this before so I guess its not that unusual. Although if you went ahead of this be prepared for possible problems in your relationship. Maybe you like the idea but would it be different if it actually happened in reality??? And also, if your wife is not comfortable with it then she's just not comfortable with it. Pushing her into it to please you will only spoil things. Unless she's one hundred percent behind the idea just to spice up your sex life and nothing else this could seriously complicate things.
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