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*zrlinz
writes: Check out my other posts on my huge fight with my boyfriend this weekend. But I have another huge problem. My boyfriend lied to me last night. He told me he was going out for coffee with his guy friend, and I talked to that guy friend today(mutual friend) and he said he didn't go out for coffee with my boyfriend, he was with his girl all night. And I asked how coffee was when my boyfriend got home and he said ohhh it was good. And I have just been having thoughts of not being with him and it makes me feel sick, but I have been waking up feeling like this for 4 days straight. I haven't talked to him, but I plan to confront him today when he gets home from work and break up with him. Am I right? what do i do. I love him so much, but I can't take feeling like this any more.-------------[Mod note: please provide us with the link on your previous posts as you mentioned above, so the aunts will be better informed when giving you advice. Thank you] Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (7 April 2009):
I would talk it over with your boyfriend to find out what he was really doing with that girl. Be straight with him and say your not going to lose it you just want to know the truth and why he lied.
If he was having sexual contact with her then you have the choice to split or try and work it through with him.
If you do really want to split up with him make sure you have your friends or you mum near you to help you through.
Good luck babe
Livia
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