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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello.please, i need help on this question.i am a guy who does not like to flirt around with girls, most girls say i am shy because i hardly talk to them. personally i know that i'm not shy.i behave this way because i think i am not yet ready for a relationship. When i meet with girls(especially those i'm attracted to),i feel like asking them out but my decision to wait for the right time makes me not to. My point is - Am i really shy, or is it that i'm not ready? Should always express my feelings for all the girls i meet, and have feelings for? Thank you for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): If you were really waiting until you were ready for a relationship you wouldn't be here asking this.What hobbled me when I was your age was that I built every thing up in my mind so that every single interaction with a girl was a life or death stakes event. The fear paralyzed me to the point of doing nothing.Talking to a girl is not the same as asking her out. Asking her out is not the same thing as trying to have a commitment. Having an exclusive commitment is not the same as asking her to marry you.With any luck you can string all this filler out between the fun part of relationships and the time till you marry for just about for ever. Or at least until you die from old age. Single and free.
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