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*r.Worry
writes:First off, let me say that I'm being treated for anxiety, depression and slight bipolar. I have no self esteem at all, very distrustful and extremely paranoid.My problem is, I finally found someone who makes me happy and feel better about myself. It's a long distance relationship and I'm very jealous. This probably sounds crazy but I'm jealous of her friends on sites like myspace. We met at a site like that. All these guy "friends" look better than me and 95% have more money and much more to offer. When I ask her why me? she says i'm fun, interesting and can carry on great conversations. Everyone leaves comments to her. You're so sexy and things I can't say here. It was quite awhile before she told me her ex b/f was on her page. I went back and looked at the comments. Nothing jumped out. He called her beautiful, sexy,etc... she said nothing like that but was nice to him and always commented back. I asked her why they broke up. She said he stole her credit cards and ran up a $30,000 bill!!! I asked why she didn't put him in jail. She said she had no way to prove it and after a few years she has paid it off. Am I being paranoid or does this man mean more than she's telling me? I asked why in the hell would she be friends with this guy? She tells me that she doesn't hold a grudge, it's only money and other female friends ask why he's her friend, to which she has no real answer. It's not like she's rich either so $30,000 is a lot to pay off. She talks and texts me a lot but I often wonder if she talks to other guys.I don't have much to offer at all but she tells me she loves me and only me and talks to no other guys. Am I paranoid or should I be concerned?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): paranoid seems to be right in love you always trust first i hope to be in your position someday because i see i am similar to you in im not the best lookin tool in the shed and i dont have much money at all,but im a very nice guy and hope one day the girl im in love with will say the same to me you have no idea how lucky you are this is a good time in your life enjoy it to the fullest and quite worrying so much she seems to have good views on both material objects and life and even relationships please treat her right if there is actually evidence then that would be a time to worry but as of right now it really only seems like speculation good luck
-michael
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reader, artistchick +, writes (21 February 2008):
well if there is all those guys as her friends I'm sure she talks to them
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