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writes:Well my question is if im overreacting in my current situation? I'm in a long distance relationship and at first my girlfriend didn't trust me much. She finally started to trust me but know i have doubts about her being fateful. Recently my girlfriend has been stressed out a lot and now shes always falling asleep when we talk to each other and if shes not asleep shes online watching tv, on aim or something else while we are on the phone together and she rarely pays attention to me and its starting to piss me off a lot and i end up yelling at her and i dont know what to do anymore i love her and all but there is rarely any talking involved anymore. she says i rarely start conversations but when i do shes busy with something else so i just stop trying because its not like shes listening to me. I have talked to her about it but she just ends up making me feel bad for getting angry i really dont know what to do anymore if anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, LostInTranslation  +, writes (28 April 2009):
I agree with kellyxxx, if it is getting that bad that when you guys are talking she doesn't listen or talk back then maybe it's time to move on.
You shouldn't feel bad for getting angry, it's - natural.
You should ask yourself though, are you over reacting? Perhaps you should cut back on the phone calls and talk every other day? If you are both bored or don't really do much in common which you can talk about then there won't be much to talk about.
Maybe try finding something in common you can talk about?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (18 April 2009):
 She sounds pre occupied and like she is bored! So if trying to have a conversation about this fails then take a hint and leave her to it! If she can't be bothered to talk to you then you deserve better! X
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