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writes: i get fed up real soon at my gf she does stuff that make me get shocked like dancing with other guys and i dont like this things am a jealous person ?
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reader, princess-gold-digger +, writes (5 August 2006):
 it depends really, how she is dancing with them, and whether she has asked you...and how close she is with the people she is dancing with...as my boyfriend finnished me for being to close to my lad mates, but the thing is, if girls are close to there lad mates they wont just stop to please there boyfriends, or maybe she is seeing how far she can push you many girls do that...depends really, how long you have been with her, and whether she knows them
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2006): i completely agree. the more freedom you give her, and the more trusting and understanding you are, the more loving and trustworthy she will be. it's like when you constantly get on a childs back for getting near a hot stove. the more you yell at them and tell them it's bad, the more they want to touch it. it's human instinct. so the more you get angry and jealous, the more she's going to have the desire to go out and dance with other people. but if you just relax, and realize that it's JUST dancing, she'll realize how much you respect her, love her, and trust her. and she'll know that at the end of the night, it's you she's coming home to.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 August 2006):
 Yes, you are jealous, but I think the majority of us are jealous to a certain extent.
My fiancee is much younger than me and goes clubbing with friends etc. I get very jealous, but I realise that she got engaged and is with ME because she loves ME.
Try to think like that the next time you see her dancing with a guy. I bet she acts completely different when she dances with you.
Try to allow her as much freedom as she wants, she will love you more and respect you more for it.
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