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writes:i've been crazy....actually obsessed about this guy for about a year now. I used to date him a few times, after which he said we'd better remain friends. still i wasn't over him and went out with him another time, and said to me to remain freinds only again. As time passed we stil continued talking, however not meeting and he told me he saw me with other guys, so i think he was a bit jealous. These last weeks we accidently met...which resulted in us going out together... i'm so confused..this may seem to be really childish but i can't get him off my mind..i don't even know if he cares or not, as sometimes he's really sweet but other times he acts as if i didn't exist...this thing is really driving me crazy as i think about him day and night. p.s. i didn't go to bed with him, but he was the first guy i did some other "stuff" with him. maybe that's one reason i can't forget him
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reader, lilyflower.n  +, writes (10 July 2008):
I'm in the same siaution but in my case we did not go out. No matter what you do or say, he will always be on your mind. Get whatever is causing your obsession out of your system.sounds like you are majorly falling hard for this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): People struggle to get over first loves, or people who they had significant experiences with. You might just be one of those people.
Talk to him about it is just about the only thing you can do if you can't get over him. Sorry I couldn't give more advice but getting over him and/or talking to him about it is just about it.
You can go out together as just friends. You can still keep in touch. But if you have to or decide to get over him, I'd keep your distance a bit and gradually let yourself back in again.
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