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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I've been having sex with this guy for over three months. At the beginning we both said we were okay with not having a relationship because neither of us wanted one. Recently we were away from each other for more than two weeks, and generally we hooked up anywhere between 1-4 times a week. I was surprised when I received a text message from him wishing me happy holidays but I responded like it was no big deal. A little bit ago he came to my area to check on his place and visit friends before heading back to his parents home. I went over his place and things were definitely different, after we did the dirty he was very intimate and wanted to hold me against his chest and when I told him I couldn't stay the night he tried to persuade me otherwise. He also told me he liked me, which he has said before in the past, and I took it as no big deal because of course you have to like the person you're having sex with. I also asked him what he wanted (while we were doing the deed) and he responded by saying he only wanted me. And to top things off before I left he made a motion at me to kiss him, it is all very confusing. What exactly have I gotten myself into. Is this guy only my fuck buddy or does he want more? HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Well to be totally honest I feel like we've gotten to know each other a bit over the course. He asks about me and tells me about him, and I think I have started to develop feelings for him. I am a bit afraid to ask him about this because I don't want to put myself in a position were I'll get hurt. I want to know what he's thinking..... should I wait for him to talk?
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