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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm always the one making the first move, he just sits there, makes me feel so unattractive. He says hes no good at this, just wish i could get him to touch me, kiss me. I feel as though i'm kissing and feeling a statue what can i do?
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reader, roadman +, writes (2 January 2009):
 I'm with honey pie on this one..if that don't work then get a new lover that can give it to you how you want it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Perhaps when he was a youngster he didn't get much affection shown to him, and maybe his father was of the stiff upper lip variety who didn't show any emotion or affection towards his mother. That sort of attitude rubs off on kids and stays with them for the rest of their lives unless they are re-trained.
Perhaps there were other issues in his younger days that have stuck with him.
You're the one who has to do the re-training seeing as you're the one who's with him now. Be gentle with him, but tell him and show him what you want him to do. It might be a bit drastic, but you could get dressed up in all the Ann Summers gear, stick your tits in his face and say "Here - have a feel of these" or something along those lines. Let him know that you're a sexual being and you need some display of emotion and love.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Talk to him. It's that simple. Tell him all the stuff you DO like about him, what about him turns you on.
If he's no good at it isn't it about time to start learning? Teach him. Don't tell but show him. Men are visual.
I'm sure the two of you can eventually find things to do together to spice it up.
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