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Am I likely to have exposed myself to an STD through this?

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Question - (7 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2007)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

Me and my hook up buddy let things get a little to far two days ago. We didn't go all the way but we got a little too close for comfort (rubbing aginst each other... if you get what I mean). He didn't cum. Can I get pregnant or an STD from just genital contact not intercourse?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

I am afraid so hun. Its right that men produce a pre cum when they become aroused and you can get pregnant and catch STDs from this.

It might be worth going and getting yourself tested at a GUM clinic to be sure. Its not as scarey as it sounds, they just take blood and do a test similar to a cervical smear test. The results take 2 weeks.

When are you due your next period - pray that comes and if it doesnt, do a pregnancy test. I dont think you will get a result from a test until you are 4 weeks plus anyway.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

Apparently, when the penis gets erect, a little drop of semen will be ejected, sometimes known as 'pre-cum', and in that little drop of semen there are approximately 12 million sperm. Ejaculation produces in excess of 30 million of them.

How many sperm does it take to get pregnant? Answer - ONE!

Have a look at the Brook Advisory Centres (UK) website - it has all the answers regarding STD's and more:

http://www.brook.org.uk/content/

Phil

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

Okay, so although it is EXTREMELY unlikely that you will get pregnant from just skin to skin contact I suppose it could happen - that is of course supposing that his precum (I know you said he didn't cum but there's something called precum that most people don't know about) got near your vagina, it could TECHNICALLY happen BUT I ABSOLUTELY DOUBT IT. Now, as for STDs, it is most definately possible to get HPV -the human papilloma virus (which is the virus that causes genital warts) and Herpes from just plain old skin to skin contact. In fact HPV isn't even preventable by condoms because the area around the condom carries it and it is spread by skin to skin contact. In fact, one of my very best friends who has been with her boyfriend since she was 19 AND lost her virginity to him (and never cheated on each other) actually contracted herpes from her boyfriend. Not too many people know that if your partner has a cold sore and that partner performs oral sex on you, you can easily get genital herpes. Now, this doesn't mean you should freak out. I'm just saying these are the possibilities. Although I am a nurse I work with very small children and don't usually answer these types of questions. If you have serious concerns about your activites you can call a clinic, they will give you free advice, and I promise you they will be a lot more knowledgable than anyone you'll find here. At least then you'll KNOW you're getting an answer from a true professional; someone who answers these questions on a daily basis. It is truly not a bad idea to get some form of birth control. Believe me, you'll be grateful you did.

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