A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I'll keep this short and sweet. Am I just her fallback? I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine who usually calls me to hang out and go drink with her. We often do dinner together etc....Then one day out of the blue she stops talking to me entirely. I find out she has a new boyfriend and he's a jealous guy. 2 weeks later they break up and everything goes back to how it was with us. I usually sleep in her bed with her as she hates sleeping alone (did so even before the boyfriend...no sex) We had plans today and she texted me a few hours after we were supposed to hang out saying she's been at her apt. since she got home and is going out to the bar tonight. She didn't say which one or ask if I wanted to go with her. Worst part is I actually have feelings for her but am too shy to say anything :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2015): It sounds like you're in the friend-zone, and just a guy she calls when there is no other guy in her life. If you meant anything more to her than just a stand-in and a friend; she would have let you know by now. If you act boyish, you'll be treated like a boy. If you man-up, you'll be treated like a man.
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