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writes:I worked in a local shopping mall for about a year and think I have fallen in love with one of the security guys there. Trouble is I dont work there anymore and I've just found out today that neither does he. I am heartbroken :( I cant stop myself thinking about him, I even dream about him at night. I spend every spare day I have wandering around there so I can get a glimpse of him. He always says Hi to me and gives me a little wink or a smile but thats it. Although I have definately caught him giving me some lingering looks, and I know he's caught me doing the same. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. Am I just deluding myself and should I forget about him? Will I make a total fool of myself if I persue him any further? I miss him sooooo much :(
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (28 June 2007):
 The fact that you both have partners should tell you not to pursue this. If you really like him then I do suggest you end it with you partner as he obviously isn't the one for you. xxxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 June 2007):
 I think you should just look at this as one of lifes little fantasies and move on from it, as you have said yourself you have a boyfriend, he has a girlfriend so it was probably a bit of harmless flirtation.
Take care.xx.
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