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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have a best friend who I am starting to develop feelings for. We do everything together, even live together at college, cook together, go for lunch, lie on couch together, tease each other and laugh all the time in each others company. One night when we were a tiny bit drunk we ended up kissing but decided that we should not risk our friendship as we are both getting over other relationships etc. However I am confused as to whether he has feelings for me or not or whether he just wants to protect our friendship?? I think Im falling in love with him and my head is wrecked thinking about what i should do...please help ps i dont think talking about it any further is going to lead us anywhere as I would be too afraid to tell him the truth in case he does not feel the same way...thanks so much, any help would be greatly appreciated.ps I am a 21 year old girl, he is 22
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): that sounds just like me and my homemate :)we never kissed though and i don't think we ever will. none of us wants it to happen.i do think it is easy to "misunderstand" your feelings at some points though.but again... if you kissed... i think he might fancy you.just try to find out and keep close to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): A guy doesn't spend this much time with a woman if he doesn't fancy her. I would not bring up "the talk" about your feelings or where is this relationship going, let him take the lead.....I would stop living with him as well, as this is much too familiar...to start a romance.....just continue to be yourself and be his best friend, eventually he will become very dependent on you in a good way, and he may be the first to make the next move.....you have to decide if love is worth risking your friendship....because once deeper feelings are revealed it is very difficult to go back to being just friends.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 I know that this must be very difficult for you. I think he likes you. Otherwise, why would he spend so much time around you?
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