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writes: am i in love with my teacheri am 16 and she is 22 we tlk more than her and other pupils and when she come to the skool i was there to comfort her as she was bullied n i hugged her and made her feel better we definetly have a different relationship to her and other pupils but i do fancy boys aswell but ive never had the feeling i have for her plz HELP me she is so pretty thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2006): hi,god it sounds like you have a massive crush on your teacher. dont worry you are not on your own ive been in love with my tech* teacher for bout a yr and 3 months. hes 42 and im 14. theres no chance of me going out with him. I could suggest that you can write your teacher a letter of how you feel. i did it recently but if shes a genuine nice person she wont ignore you like my teacher is doing at the moment. dont worri it will be fine. i hope this helps x 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): hey you're a teenager, apparantly when we're teenagers, we go through the weirdest stages ever in our lives. More to the point, it's totally normal to not know if we're gay or whatever. What you probably feel for your teacher is very strong affection, that can be disguised as love. You may think you love her, and love is affectionate and there is all different types. Usually when you feel like this to someone non-related to you, it's strong emotion that makes you feel as though you're in love. By this kind of love is a short dramatic thing, when it's at its climax it could be one of the strongest things you've felt so far in your life. But this also means that it will die down very quickly. From my own experiences, and i have had many similar to yours, i garantee these feelings won't last. It's tough when you've fallen for someone you definitely know you shouldn't have, and all you can think about is them and what they're doing and how bad you feel when ur mates are all talking about boys and such. You may feel now like you would die for her, but the best thing to do is to talk to someone like a counsellor or someone you really trust. Whatever you do, don't keep it bottled up to urself, or avoid her, because then you will long for her more. The best way to play things would act pleasant around her, and try to relax your emotions, because you will feel a lot calmer afterwards. JUst remember that tough times don't last, and we all have to go through them , some worse than others :) luck xxx :)
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reader, shania  +, writes (22 June 2006):
 What you have got is a big crush....its normal to have strong sexual feelings for an attractive woman...but she is out of bounds.As she is your teacher it would be very unwise of her to start a relationship with you....it would cost her...her job.You could be bisexual as well if you like boys but at 16 its hard to tell for sure.Your teacher appears vulnerable and you feel that you want to protect her but she is the grown up...it would be different if you were not her pupil but you are.I would personally keep your feelings to yourself...hard as it may be,i dare say that you will have a few more crushes along the way.You should go out with your friends and meet new and interesting people...the chances are that your teacher has a boyfriend already.
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